The Associated Press and others have amply covered the recent jabs that McCain has given Obama regarding how he sees Barack’s view of the progression of the Iraq war, stating that, “…given the opportunity to choose between failure and success, he chooses failure.” Obviously, our dear doddling Senator has forgotten his Geritol once again.  Nurse!
Senator McCain, failure is a part of life, and in some times and in some situations, far more preferable to the alternatives in hand which only start with embarrassment and humiliation and can extend anywhere as far as grave injury and writing a death sentence.  Surely you have learned from some of your failures in your life and become a better person because of them?
Maybe not.  One has to wonder how yourself, Bush, and the entire neocon movement continues to support such a farcical operation, founded on some outright lies and many half-truths and partial facts; a quest which continues to flounder about like so many chickens in chamber pot, its mission to bring democracy and peace to a nation that cannot yet fathom a dictatorless society let alone true unadulterated freedom. Meanwhile, a great many hardworking men and women simply doing their job in the armed forces and following orders are putting themselves and their family futures on the line for a war never declared around a reason that never existed.
Stunningly, amazingly, dense.
And yet, regardless of all these stark pieces of reality, if we even partially accept that invading Iraq was necessary, moral, and justified, this does not change the fact that one option for getting out of there and returning to a life of normality is, indeed, the F-word:Â Â Failure.
Why must it be such a frightening thing?
The most successful of businessmen will no doubt regale any listener kind enough to bend an ear in their direction with countless stories of the most spectacular and horrific moments in their lives that darned near ruined them completely and shot their dreams and hopes to hell.  You’ll probably even find a few that strongly regret some of these transgressions, no matter what the outcome was.   Failure is, and always has been, one of the best ways for life to grab the nearest sand shovel and bean us over the head in teaching us a lesson.
Sure, it can be a painful experience, but so is giving birth, from what I understand, and yet folks seem inclined to keep doing that, don’t they?  Mind you, sometimes babies happen because someone didn’t pull out in time, but….wait.  That relates rather nicely here, don’t you think?  I digress, and I think there’s a law against saying the word, “Touché,” to yourself, especially during inner monologue.
Frankly, you do not speak for me when you state that failure is not a good option.  It is a very plausible option, given the fact that we not only continue to create and/or maintain chaos in that state by our very presence, and the fact that the Iraqi government has specifically requested that we get the hell out in a timely fashion, thankyouverymuch, but most importantly because by staying in the Middle East and exerting such a bullying influence on the region will only come back to chomp us on the southward cheeks in the end.   If this is a key strategy in the War On Terrorâ„¢, please don’t play Risk anytime soon for any great amount of cash.
In addition, I do not believe that having a leader that sometimes accepts failure or defeat is a bad or unworthy trait.  Rather, I am convinced that is is the character of the person’s response to such a situation that determines their ability to lead and gain respect.   Avoiding failure altogether is simply a sign of a coward, an idiot, or both.
Another very important question everyone should be asking is this:  If the U.S. pulls out of Iraq in a timely fashion, and the country collapses upon itself in howevermany months afterwards, is it truly a failed operation?  Are we artificially placing blame and responsibility on our shoulders for the entire welfare of a nation’s stability?  That is not a situation that I am comfortable with nor one that I wish to start setting a trend for around the world.  The fact remains that, despite the fact that we were the aggressors and we were the ones that shot their entire society and way of life to hell and back does not mean that we are now the permanent caretakers of their society and future to the end of perpetuity.  If they were incapable, perhaps, but they’re not — the Iraqi people are a strong and productive folk, and perhaps it’s time we let them prove it as such. They certainly feel ready for the challenge.
So, Senator McCain — I am not afraid of failure, either in the case of Iraq, or Afghanistan, or any other failed mission.  I am far more impressed and far more respectful of an admittance of wrongdoing, a pledge to correct wrongs and prevent a reoccurrence, and a skillful and tactful withdrawal from the fray.  This is the mark of true character, success, and leadership, and you sir are simply afraid of it.
It is a mistake to suppose that men succeed through success; they much oftener succeed through failures. Precept, study, advice, and example could never have taught them so well as failure has done. — Samuel Smiles






A very well written opinion piece. I agree that failure should not be looked upon as death sentence in any arena. In fact we learn far more from our failures than our sucesses. However I feel you’ve missed McCain’s point entirely. Senator McCain has on many occasions pointed to the fact that the war has been “horribly mismanaged”. However like with any situation, sports, business, and yes war, it’s not how you begin that is remembered, it’s how you finish. Whether or not you agree with the “why” of the Iraq war, we are there. How we “finish” the war in Iraq could very well shape the direction of a country and region for generations. It is our obligation to ensure that we fix what we have broken, and leave the Iraqi people with a chance at future success. One should not fault McCain for having the “Audacity of Hope” in Iraq.
“We make war that we may live in peace” – Aristotle
I wonder how things will be if we ever completely leave Iraq.
It’s a cultural thing. The culture of balls over brains. We’ve been dealt these cards (hey, we dealt them!), and by God, we’re going to play them out! I wonder, do we look weaker if we: 1) suffer another Viet Nam at the hands of extremists due to our unwillingness to admit that a situation has gone from bad to worse, or 2) watch the failure of the fledgling Iraqi democracy following our tactical withdrawal from the region? Neither’s a great situation, but then sticking around and cleaning up after car bombs ain’t so great, either.
Brock: I can appreciate the sentiment, but I also think that there are a lot of Americans that are afraid of thinking of another possible outcome besides success, which is that we pull out, everything goes to hell, and we just watch it. I grow increasingly doubtful that the region will EVER be stable, no matter how many dollars/people/efforts we throw at it, and staying is only tossing away lives for something that will, ultimately, never work. As devastating as it might be to the region, it may very well be in our best interest to get out as quickly and neatly as we can and let the chips fall where they may, as it were, and we can all bow our heads in shame for being stupid to do it in the first place. I think this point is what McCain refuses to consider. Hope is one thing, but reality’s another, and there’s a time and place for each.
Niche: Absolutely, and it’s kinda been ground into America’s psyche since the beginning: “Americans always win! Americans don’t quit! America’s always right!” We’ve had very few times where we’ve fallen completely flat on our ass, and I don’t know as though that’s a good thing. There’s a very large amount of Americans who simply don’t think we can…NOT win. Because we always do. I don’t know how they forget the farce that was Vietnam, but apparently we’re able to. Sad.